F.A.Q

1. Who gets invited to swinger party?

Invitations to swinger parties at clubs usually extend to couples, unaccompanied females and select unaccompanied males in the lifestyle. All of which are members of the club.

Those who attend swinger house party are by invitation only. The host themselves chooses who they wish to invite to their home for a house party.


2. What people will I met at swinger party?

Various swinger couples and singles from all different background, race and religions will attend swinger party. Age range will also differ from party to party. Most will range from mid 20’s to mid 50’s.


3. What is the different between swinger parties at clubs and those held at a house?

Here are the differences:

  • Swinger parties at clubs require members
  • For entries at club's parties an entry fee os required.
  • Parties at clubs can either be on-premises (sexual activities are permitted on the premises) or off-premises (sexual activities not permitted on premises).
  • There are lots more couples and single swingers to chose from at club’s party
  • Swinger house party can only be attending via invitation.
  • House parties are more discreet and private.


4. Is it hard for my partner and me to organize a swinger house party?

It is absolutely not hard to organize your very own swinger house party. See our page for tips on how to organize swinger house party and you will see how easy it is.


5. If my partner and I are invited to swinger house party, do I need to take anything to the party?

Usually at swinger house party you and partner need not require to take anything other then yourselves and some toiletries for your personal use. Some host may ask you to BYOB (bring your own bottle) of alcohol and drinks for your own consumption and a plate of finger food for everyone to share. If the host requires you to bring anything it would be written on the invitation.



6. What is swinging?

Swinging is where to or more couples agree to get together for the express purpose of engaging in an intimate or sexual relationship with a partner or partners other than their own.

7. Who are swingers?

Swingers is defined as a form of recreational social and sexual intercourse between consenting adults. Swingers commonly consisting of male/female couples meeting with other male/female couples for sex and ongoing intimate.

8. When did swinging begin?

The history of swinging began in the early 1950’s. During that time the only way to meet other swingers was through personal ads in the newspapers. Today individuals and couples who are interested in the swinging lifestyle can go to internet, clubs, or organization that specializes in this type of sexual expression.

9. What are the benefits of being a swinger?

The benefits of being a swinger are:

  • Get to explore their sexuality and sensuality in new ways that they find are not easily to accept in traditional communities.
  • It a good way for bi-curious women and men to explore their potential bisexuality without becoming involved in the lesbian or gay community where many feel uncomfortable or unwelcome.
  • Swinging allows both men and women the opportunity to reject monogamy.
  • Individuals can also explore and learn lots more about their sexual interests.
  • Swinging can enhance a relationship and the commitment involved in the couple’s relationship.
  • Becoming a swinger allows you to make many new friends.

10. What is a swinger life style?

A swinger lifestyle is free from a world of frustration and lost loves. The swinger’s lifestyle is simple that gives and receive pleasure.

11. What are the common types of swinger lifestyles?

Soft Swinging, Closed Swinging and Open Swinging

12. Do swingers have rules?

NO MEANS NO

BE RESPECTFUL OF THERE OTHER PERSON WISHES.

ALWAYS AS PERMISSION BEFORE TOUCHING.

IF ONE OF THESE RULES ARE BROKEN YOU WILL ASKED TO LEAVE THE PARTY!!!!

It suggested that you and your partner first agree in engagement of such activity. Any rules or restrictions should be set by you and your partner together. It is suggested that at the very least you and your partner should have a little history together and familiarity with each others’ emotional needs. It is believe that this helps with approaching other couples who are in a swinger lifestyle.

The general rule of thumb is that swinging works best when couples view swinging as an enhancement to their existing sexual relationship, rather than to replace a fail one.


13. Do my partner and I have to follow any rules when attending swinger party?

Rules are only formed and to be followed by everyone so that the party can go smoothly so those attending can enjoy themselves and have lots of funs. See our page about how to be a good swinger house party etiquette and make sure that you are invited to the next one.


14. Do I need to dress up to attend swinger party?

Yes, everyone should dress up for swinger party. What we mean by dressing up is, if the party has a theme dress up for it and be part of the fun. Those party without a theme dress up for the occasion.

Avoid wearing throngs, sneakers, sandals, t-shirt, jeans or pants which are rip or has holes, and caps. Dressing in these will see you as not very popular among others.

Our advice is ladies should dress up to impress while the gents should be classy.

15. Do I have to worry about unsafe sex?

There is nothing to worry about unsafe sex in the swinging lifestyle especially when attending swinger party. Many swingers are responsible people who practice safe sex with the use of condoms and with regard body check for AIDS and common STD's.

Clubs who are on-premises will provides condoms for the use by its' members. The same will also apply at house parties. If you have a special favorite in regards to brand then you are more then welcome to bring your own.

If at anytime a person refuse to practice safe sex, don't feel rude to say "no" to any sexual contact as you have the right to protect yourself and others.


16. If I don’t want to participate in any activities at the party, can I watch?

You have every right not to participate in any activities, especially sexual activities if you do not wish to. At anytime where you don't want to participate just say "no thank you, but thank you for asking".

If you prefer to watch (voyeurism) others engaged in sexual activities it is just polite to ask for permission first, but in most cases they are more them happy to show off in front of you (exhibitionism).

17. Are there any specific times that my partner and I have to leave by at swinger party?

It is only well-mannered to arrive and leave the party together unless prior arrangement have been made beforehand with the club or the host of the party.

There are no specific times to leave a party, but often when others start leaving it is time to wound down and leave too.

Some clubs will have rooms available for guest to stay overnight, but prior arrangement must be made. For swinger house party, some host will offer couples to stay overnight, this too need prior arrangement.


18. Can we take swinger photos or take swinger videos at swinger party?

The use of cameras, video equipments and mobile phone with in-built cameras are prohibited from all swinger clubs. Unless prior arrangements are made photos can be taken at some private parties, but only with consent of the swingers you are taking.

If in doubt, ask before you take at video or photo equipments with you to  the party.